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About Fatima

Assalamu alaikum dear sisters

Soul O Sisters was born from a lifetime of experiences that have shaped me, softened me, strengthened me, and drawn me closer to Allah in ways I never imagined.

This retreat comes from a lifetime of learning, healing, and trusting Allah through every season.

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A Little About Me

I was raised in Blackburn, one of eight siblings in a two-bed terraced. My Father was a factory worker and worked tirelessly to provide the best life he could, whilst my mother took care of the home. Yet, we stilled faced the poverty, racism and discrimination. I started work at a very young age to simply lessen the burden at home, washing dishes at the local hotel and care home. Desperate to escape the relentless racism and lack of opportunities, aged 17, I took the Coach journey to London with £5 in my pocket, determined to build a better life for myself. Alhamdulillah Allah opened doors for me. I was married at 19 and bought my first property by 20 with a successful career ahead of me within Local Government. But alongside these blessings, Allah also decreed tests that shaped me into the person I am today. Aged 25, I faced the tragic loss of my beloved Father and later became a single parent of three after 20 years of marriage. This made me determined to do something new to provide for my children and give back to the community. I successfully set up the first female-only multi-lingual driving school. Teaching women a skill for life was extremely rewarding empowering them to be more independent, confident and opening up more opportunities for them.
Alhamdulillah my children are now all married and living their own independent lives. I am now working as a civil servant; this has allowed me to have a better work life balance and travel, whilst continuously striving towards my wellbeing and the hereafter. In 2021 my beloved Mother passed away aged 92, leaving a massive void in my life. Despite a lifetime of struggles, widowed at 60 she was the rock that held the family together. My Mother was extremely charitable, lived independently with dignity, humility patience, strength and resilience always placing her trust in Allah . To this day she is my motivation, strength and Inspiration. Throughout my life, I experienced broken marriages, hardship, and moments that could have crushed me. But Allah placed sabr in my heart, patience, humility, and a resilience that helped me keep moving, keep trusting, and keep believing in khair even when I couldn’t see it. I stayed positive, hardworking, held onto gratitude, and remained determined to rebuild with dignity each time. Looking back now, I see how every chapter was written with mercy, even the painful ones. “Allah will never burden a soul more than it can bear” Surah Al-Baqarah (chapter 2, verse 286)

The epiphany moment

Finding Myself Again

Just me, Allah, the stillness,
and the space to breathe.

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When my children grew up, got married, and started their own lives, I found myself alone for the first time in decades. Instead of loneliness, Allah placed something else in my heart, sukoon.

A calmness.
A stillness.
A closeness to Him that I had longed for.

For the first time, I could prioritise my wellbeing.
I started taking care of my health, gym four times a week, cycling with Cycle Sisters, running, eating well.

At 60, I feel stronger than I did in my 40s, Alhamdulillah.

And then…

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And then… I booked my first solo retreat at Zulal.
Just me, Allah, the stillness, and the space to breathe.

That retreat was life-changing.

I healed.
I reconnected with Allah.
I reflected on my journey, every test, every blessing, every moment Allah carried me through.
I felt myself again.

When I combined Umrah with the wellness retreat on my next trip, it was the perfect blend of spiritual depth and physical renewal.

And in that moment, I knew:

I want women to experience this.
To feel held.
To feel connected.
To feel restored, spiritually, mentally, and physically.

That was the moment Soul O Sisters was born.

Why I Created This Retreat

to reconnect, restore, and realign.

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This journey was created to give women what our hearts quietly long for,
a moment to breathe, to reflect, and to return to Allah with sincerity.

A space where worship, wellbeing, and stillness come together.

A space to step away from daily responsibilities and immerse yourself in ibadah,
from the sacred rites of Umrah to the quiet moments of rest and renewal.
A space to prepare for Ramadan with clarity, calm, and intention.
A space to remember yourself again, not through escape,
but through remembrance, reflection, and returning to Allah.

I created this retreat for:

the woman who gives endlessly

the woman who puts herself last

the woman who quietly yearns for closeness to Allah

the woman who needs rest without guilt

the woman who wants worship and wellbeing woven together

the woman who wants to feel seen, supported, and understood

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What I Believe

A life rooted in faith, wellbeing, and quiet strength.

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Everything I have lived has taught me:

gratitude changes every hardship

patience is a shield

humility is a blessing

health is an amanah

resilience grows from trusting Allah’s plan

Allah never burdens a soul beyond what it can bear

I want for every sister what I want for myself:
A life rooted in faith, wellbeing, and quiet strength.

Stepping Into My Purpose

This is my way of giving back for all
Allah has blessed me with.

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I have travelled to nearly 50 countries.
But the places that call me back again and again are Makkah, Madinah, and Zulal.

This retreat is a way for me to return to those sacred places with you, not as a tour guide, but as a sister who has walked this path, who understands life’s weight, and who wants you to feel the beauty, calm, and closeness to Allah that transformed me.

Every retreat includes an opportunity for a revert sister who may not afford Umrah. This is my way of giving back for all Allah has blessed me with.

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“Verily with every hardship comes ease”
Quran (94:5-6) Fa ina ma a Usri Yusra

“Allah swt does not burden any soul with more than it can bear” (Quran 2:286)

Your Invitation

I invite you, with sincerity, to join me.

Travel with me to Makkah, Madinah, and Zulal.
Heal, reflect, and reconnect with Allah in a space created with intention
and compassion.

Return home renewed, spiritually, emotionally, and physically.